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Tibetan Buddist Philosophy Book

How can we live our lives when everything seems to fall apart—when we are continually overcome by fear, anxiety, and pain? The answer, Pema Chödrön suggests, might be just the opposite of what you expect. Here, in her most beloved and acclaimed work, Pema shows that moving toward painful situations and becoming intimate with them can open up our hearts in ways we never before imagined. Drawing from traditional Buddhist wisdom, she offers life-changing tools for transforming suffering and negative patterns into habitual ease and boundless joy.

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Emily Nagoski’s Come As You Are, uses groundbreaking science and research to prove that the most important factor in creating and sustaining a sex life filled with confidence and joy is not what the parts are or how they’re organized but how you feel about them. In the years since the book’s initial publication, countless women have learned through Nagoski’s accessible and informative guide that things like stress, mood, trust, and body image are not peripheral factors in a woman’s sexual well-being; they are central to it - and that even if you don’t always feel like it, you are already sexually whole by just being yourself. 

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People with vulvas have a largely unknown network of structures responsible for arousal and orgasm that their owners and even most medical professionals don't know about. We're not just talking about Ye Olde G-Spot here. Women have an entire erectile network that, if properly stimulated, can elevate their erotic experience from "Oh!" to "Oh! Oh! Oh!"

Join celebrated sexuality teacher Sheri Winston as she integrates ancient wisdom, lost knowledge, and modern sexuality information in a sexy, fun, empowering guidebook that illuminates the secret paths to fabulous, orgasmically abundant sex. 

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Autobiographical Book

There is something SO POWERFUL about this sometimes-hard-to-find book. 

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Nonfiction Book

In Beyond the Gender Binary, poet, artist, and LGBTQIA+ rights advocate Alok Vaid-Menon deconstructs, demystifies, and reimagines the gender binary.

Vaid-Menon challenges the world to see gender in full color, not in black and white. They show that gender is a creative and malleable form of expression, and that the only limit is imagination. 

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Poetry

This is a delicious, saucy, and surprising poetry book written by Amara, a sacred sexuality and feminine spiritual practice teacher. 

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Poetry & Philosophy Book

Ceremony is a collection for those on the cusp of becoming. It is a reminder that we were not meant to fit into this world perfectly, but to live in such a way that might forge a path all our own. It is a reminder that we are one with each other and nature itself. It is a reminder that we contain within us the latent potential of every future possibility we can conceive of. It is a reminder that we often must release what is not ours in order to receive what is, that we are all born with a unique imprint to leave upon the world, and that self-love is not an infatuation, but a homecoming. Ceremony is a book written around the idea that the most unlikely moments are often the very ones offering us a chance to meet ourselves more deeply; it is a book for the ones who are ready to stop waiting and wondering, and dive all the way into who they were meant to be.

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Nonfiction Book

Exploring the crossroads of gender and sexuality, Trans/Love: Radical Sex, Love & Relationships Beyond the Gender Binary offers unusually engaging narratives that create a raw and honest depiction of dating, sex, love, and relationships among members of the gender variant community. FTM, MTF, thirdgender, genderqueer, and other non-traditional identities beyond the gender binary of traditional male and female are included in this often heartwarming, occasionally heartbreaking, always heartfelt groundbreaking anthology. From monogamous love and marriage to anonymous sex and one-night hook-ups (and everything in between), these stories offer readers insight into the precarious emotional and practical mechanics of intimacy among gender-variant experiences.

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Poetry

WITCHDOCTORPOET is the debut collection of fiction, poetry and prose by the US based artist, Bola Juju. It is a story about love, womanhood and the unwavering power of healing from the inside out. WITCHDOCTORPOET is soul food for those embarking on their own heroine's journey. This is a book for all of the wanderers, wounded healers, empaths, and highly sensitive folk in need of that extra push to keep going. Excerpt: "Nothing softens the wounds of your ancestors like the sweetness of your existence." (pg. 142 of WITCHDOCTORPOET)

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Nonfiction Book

How do we make social justice the most pleasurable human experience? How can we awaken within ourselves desires that make it impossible to settle for anything less than a fulfilling life? Author and editor Adrienne Maree Brown finds the answer in something she calls “pleasure activism,” a politics of healing and happiness that explodes the dour myth that changing the world is just another form of work. Drawing on the black feminist tradition, she challenges us to rethink the ground rules of activism. 

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Poetry

What feminine part of yourself did you have to destroy in order to survive in this world? At what point does femininity become synonymous with apology? Who hurt the people who hurt you?

Femme In Public is a poetry collection by transfeminine writer Alok Vaid-Menon. It is a meditation on anti-trans violence, a ceremony for loss and grief, and an imagining of what could be if we weren’t taught to fear the very things that have the potential to set us free. 

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In Wild Creative, Tami Lynn Kent shows you how to tap into your creative center and access the natural, sustaining energy that is inherently yours. In doing so, you'll embark on a journey to achieve your dreams and restore your inner creative map. In addition, you'll discover that when creativity and inspiration take center stage in your life, miracles both large and small unfold.

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Nonfiction Book

This book is written to reacquaint a woman with her own power source - which is the part of herself she has been taught to ignore, push down, and despise. Indeed, the word that most viscerally sums up that power is, as Regena puts it, "arguably the most powerful pejorative word in the English language". 

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CLAWS for Goosebumpy Tingly BACK SCRATCHING Magic!

I manufacture and sell these! High Quality, very functional and also BEAUTIFUL!

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Emay Plus Facial All in One Cold/Warm Skin Massager

O. M. G. I can't put this down. Just trust me.  Buy it. It's amazing on the face and neck I'm obsessed. It heats up mmmmm and also has a very cold setting. So indulgent. 

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Roller Ball Hand Massager

An inexpensive way to add a new massage sensation to your repertoire. 

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